Nearly anything you can do to a woman with your hands will feel better if you do it with your mouth! Use these five hot spots to arouse her instantly.
We spoke with Amy Goldenberg, Consumer Research Analyst, SurveyStud, Inc about kissing, and here are her research findings.
Goldenberg indicated based on research a woman’s body is an incredibly sensuous creation. The slightest kiss on the right spot can send shivers down her spine, give her chills or goosebumps, or make her body shake with delight.
Some women can even achieve orgasm from being kissed in the right place, even with no contact with her genitals!
The right touch for kissing is easier said than done. Bad kissing can completely kill the mood, or worse.
Kiss too hard on her neck and you’ll leave an embarrassing mark, suck too hard on her breast and you could hurt her. If your kiss is too light, you might tickle her. And of course, if you simply aren’t making her feel good, you will bore her, and she will be turned off.
The perfect kiss in the perfect place is not easy. Really, there’s no substitute for practice and experience, but if you follow this guide, you’ll be well on your way.
Of course, when most people think of kissing, what immediately comes to mind is making out. There’s a good reason for this – a long, deep, sensuous kiss is hot! It’s how almost any sexual encounter begins.
#1 Lips. Smooching, French kissing, tongue action, sucking face, first base – no matter what you want to call it, kissing on the lips is essential. Being a great kisser can mean the difference between only getting a kiss, and getting much more.
A woman’s skin is quite sensitive, and this is especially true around the lips. Keep a clean shave, or condition your beard or mustache so it doesn’t irritate her skin. Few things ruin a kiss faster for a woman than feeling sandpaper rubbed on her face.
#2 Neck. The skin on the sides of the neck is some of the most sensitive on the body. Give it slow, sensual kisses with minimal suction. Drag the smooth, wet skin of your inner lips slowly over her skin and you’ll already start to hear her moan softly. Don’t be afraid to let your tongue play too, but don’t slobber her. After the kiss, her skin should be dry within a minute.
Neck kisses can go from just below her earlobe, down to just over her collarbone. Don’t kiss the front of her neck, as even slight contact can push on her windpipe. Don’t leave a “hickey” or any bruising marks.
#3 Collarbone. This is not as sensitive, but as you kiss her neck, you’re already right in the neighborhood. This is the area where her neck meets her chest and shoulder. Kiss just above the bone, and down from the base of the neck onto her shoulder. Soft kisses with minimal suction are best here.
#4 Ears. Ears are often neglected, but they’re a great spot for kissing. Gently suck on her earlobe and run your tongue behind her ear. This can be an especially good place to kiss during sex. Be careful though, loud breathing or kissing noises directly into the ear are not sexy at all.
#5 Breasts. After her genitals, her breasts are the most sexually sensitive part of a woman’s body. Some women can even achieve orgasm just from having them kissed. Anywhere on either breast is highly sensual, but the nipple is the most sensitive part.
You can usually kiss the breasts harder than other body parts, but keep in mind that every woman is different. Strong groping and sucking might feel amazing to one woman, but painful to another. Nipple squeezing and pinching can hurt like crazy, or drive her crazy. Also, in the days before her period arrives, a woman’s breasts tend to swell and become extra sensitive.
Start kissing her breasts slowly and gently. Gradually start to apply more pressure, squeeze and suck a little harder, and press her nipple tighter between your lips *not your teeth!*. She’ll give you cues as to whether she wants more. And don’t be afraid to ask. Establishing communication during foreplay is a key to great sex.
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